Holy but Human: Modern Trials of Christian Dating

Dating as a Christian woman in today’s world hits different. You love God, you’re healing, you’re growing — yet you’re navigating a dating culture filled with mixed signals, emotional confusion, trauma triggers, and men who test your peace and your discernment.Holy but Human is a bold, transparent, faith-centered guide for the modern Christian woman who’s trying to honor God while managing real emotions, real desires, and real-life dating experiences. With a voice that is both holy and human, both wise and witty, author Alisha Griffin explores the truth about dating in a world where boundaries are blurred, intentions are unclear, and emotional intelligence is rare.Through raw storytelling, spiritual insight, emotional clarity, and poetic interludes from “Miss Lisha, God’s Lyrical Mermaid,” this book reveals:The struggle of being healed in some places and hurting in othersHow to recognize spiritual red flags, emotional patterns, and trauma bondsWhy Christian women ignore chemistry triggers, charm, and counterfeit “heaven sent” connectionsHow to date with discernment, self-worth, and God-led wisdomWhat it means to be a “strong woman” without being emotionally hardenedHow to stop accepting attention when you deserve intentionThe difference between desire, distraction, and divine alignmentThe journey of loving yourself into the woman you prayed to becomeThis is not another surface-level Christian dating book filled with clichés.This is the truth — raw, spiritual, emotional, vulnerable, humorous, and deeply human.For the woman who prays, praises, heals, feels, and still believes in love…For the woman who is tired of chaos but committed to wholeness…For the woman who wants to date with clarity and peace, not confusion and compromise…Holy but Human is your companion, your reminder, and your roadmap.Because holiness doesn’t cancel humanity — and humanity doesn’t disqualify destiny. Read more